Questioning

Throughout the different phrases of your life, you’ll definitely question your thoughts at some point of it. Your views towards life might change, how you interact with people might change, and how every step you take is of a self discovery. How the things that you didn’t understand suddenly became crystal clear. Whatever actions you do reflect on your thoughts, there is always a reason behind an action…

How smart are you?

It really depends on the people that’s around you, your friends, your classmates and the people you mixed with. The more friends you have the more dumb you become, but it is arguable. The more friends you have the more you know how to act in front of people, how you can carry yourself.

Successful Man?

Being successful is not about wining everything, getting the things that you go for, but more of admitting about a failure, of something that you didn’t get.

Actually, that’s more like a loser kind of thinking. Instead of pondering over what you didn’t do right, why not just set another goal and move on? Either way can be deem as a loser’s way of putting things to make him/ her feel better and it’s something for people to ponder over too…

Working Hard

I got friends who asked me:

“Why are you working so hard?”

Some even go to the extend of calling me a “Closet Mugger”, but you know what? I actually feel flattered by that comment. Just 2 years back when I was in my previous school, it was my final year before I got sent to the frontline (by saying frontline, I’m glorifying it, all I did was to sit behind a desk answering to people’s request). All I could do was to think back and regret, what I should have done to make it better, or at least to my school work.

Since I made it to college, I should give it all in, also to change the perception of people and to proof to myself that as long effort is put in, anything can be possible.

Not to regret what you never do and living your dream out.

What’s stopping you.

I was talking to my friend a few months back, we were sharing about what drives us to do the things we do. This question came up: “What makes me not want to put in effort in the things I do?”. It goes all the way to the root. My parents never wanted me to go far. Since young they had drilled this thought of wanting me to just finish my school, don’t have to get good results. You don’t have to force your kid to study, but to provide them with the necessary encouragement or support to allow them to go further in life…

Intrusion of privacy

I really don’t understand the rational behind standing very close to someone on a public transport in a off peak period. It’s perfectly fine when it’s morning rush hours, people had no choice by to stand close to one another. Why would someone stand close to a person while there is plenty of spaces around? To smell scent give out by the guy or the lady standing beside you? To read the messages of the person, see what he or she is playing on their phone? Isn’t this an intrusion into personal space? Not all people want their messages to be read, some people are conscious about their body odour.

Accepting the fact..

When ever people pass comments on your physique, it’s never easy to digest. Often we’ll make excuses to make yourself feel better. The most difficult part is taking that comment or statement and accepting it. There is always a half fact behind every comment that’s being passed, if not why would they even bother to pass it if your consious don’t register it. The most amasing thing that a person can do is to take that negative comment with a grain of salt and turn it to a positive one…